Music, neuroscience and the link between sexuality and creativity

It happens unexpectedly and there’s the charm. You hear a new song. Or you listen to a known one and new nuances of it ignite something in you. The right note hits different. It does things to you! It caresses your soul. It sparks an idea. Suddenly dots are being connected around an idea. But what is the right note? Isn’t it something that’s off-key which makes your heart flutter?

As a pianist, it happens often, mostly unconsciously: Moving and tapping fingers erratically on surfaces. On the subway. Lost in thoughts over a coffee in café. Anywhere, basically. To the one sitting nearby: No, I’m not nervous! I’m air-playing. The song? May I share it? Well, it’s usually in my head. That’s enough to get those fingers dancing. It’s not necessarily a song blasting through my headphones. I mean, I wear them a lot, especially on dreamy train rides or flights during exclusive tours, often on my way to an intimate, private escort date in some beautiful major European city.

I catch myself air-playing again. I look at my fingers. Mother Nature had in for me: Long, slender fingers. For the ambitious pianist — extremely helpful, a necessary extra, a gift — just like a good ear.

As an escort? That’s quite another story, obviously. But still enough of a feature to get your cinematic fantasy going.

If you know some bits about me, you know that both escorting and art, music and creating it, to be specific, are big in my life. Touch is an essential part of both. With intention, with precision, with emotion. My body is heavily involved in both. And there’s something about this which sits on my tongue and I try to put my finger on it — in a metaphorical sense, though. It’s the connection between art, creation and sexuality, so fascinating. Actually sparked my deeper research. I am really getting into it.

Creativity, sex and the neuroscience involved, sometimes playing a connecting role between the two — intrigues me to no end. It is evidence-based, that there is a neuroscientific link between creativity and sexuality. You may read more about that in the link I’ve dropped down below.

Reader! If you and I go on a intimate rendez-vous and, you know, our meeting is ideally ignited with a classic glass of something luscious — please note that I am quite a sucker for our charming get-to-know-you-talk… And most of all for listening to you with undivided attention. If in moments of silence (hello, erotic tension), you catch me casually tapping my fingers on something, anything — sure you’ll wonder: What goes on in my head — playing some tunes or playing on / with parts of your body?

Because sometimes… no, often actually, body just knows better. Fingers know better. We’ll explore later. Let’s extend the research? Between the sheets.

With love, Elise

Referral link:

https://www.futurelab.net/blog/2009/12/sex-and-creativity-there-connection-study-shows-number-sexual-partners-corresponds/

Oh hello

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Nice to have you here! This is gonna be the very first post of my blog. I am excited about using this one as a space where I can ponder on intriguing topics, be bold, share impressions and leave some thoughts — the more unhinged, the better, I guess. Not sure, if I’ll get naked here, but my thoughts will. A thing you’ll find out about me: I suck at sugarcoating things and I am a sucker for unleashing heartfelt words that have been lingering on the tongue for a good while. Which means things will get weird at some point. Or someone’s feathers may be ruffled. But for sure, I may inform and sort things out. Exciting, huh?

Now, for a quick Intro about me: I am an International Travel Companion and Independent Escort in Hamburg, Germany. I am not only based and available in the Venice of the North, though. I travel frequently — beyond Germany, beyond Europe — and I am generally available for discreet escort dates worldwide upon request.

I’ve tapped into escorting few years ago and despite breaks due to personal life circumstances, I haven’t looked back ever since. I just love too many things about it and despite my other passions which demand lot of time and dedication in my life, I couldn’t let it go. So here I am.

As an artist with a focus on deeply human experiences this is a dream come true. With my artistic approach I view escorting as a constantly evolving, ever-changing immersive art. Having experience in hospitality, an educational background in humanities and being a multilingual, a polyglot surely has its perks here. When I’m not escorting? I am a pianist and producer, a bedroom producer, actually. Ha-ha. Obviously, beds are a major place I operate from — or in.

Alright, I can’t wait to get into it. See you in my next post, my reader!