Music, neuroscience and the link between sexuality and creativity

It happens unexpectedly. But that’s the charm. So, you hear a new song. Or you listen to one you know and suddenly you notice nuances which you haven’t noticed before. Something in your soul is ignited and that happened due to that one note which hit different. That does things to you. It caresses your soul. Maybe an idea is sparked. Suddenly dots are being connected around an existing idea.

But what is the right note? Could it be something that’s totally off-key which makes your heart flutter?

As a pianist, it happens often, mostly unconsciously: Moving and tapping fingers. Erratically, on all kinds of surfaces. Wherever, anywhere, basically. On the subway. Lost in thoughts over a coffee in some cozy café. To the one sitting nearby: No, you, I’m not nervous! I’m air-playing. To what song? If I may share it, please? Well, it’s usually in my head. That’s enough to get those fingers dancing. It’s not necessarily a song blasting through my headphones. I wear them a lot though, especially on dreamy train rides or flights during exclusive tours, often on my way to an intimate, private escort date in some beautiful major European city. City lights, buildings, windows, faces, trees rushing by. Tap-tap-tap. I remember a beautiful classical piece. But this melody is blurry, mixing up with another (especially if I am falling into a little nap during my trip) A random, out-of-the-blue note, off-key, comes up. It hits me like the random thought, a delicious one, hits me when the door closes behind me as you invite me in, later, into your hotel room.

I catch myself air-playing again. As an escort? Enough of a detail to get your cinematic fantasy going.

I look at my fingers. Mother Nature had in for me: Long, slender fingers. For the ambitious pianist — extremely helpful, a necessary extra, a gift — just like a good ear.

As an escort? That’s quite another story, obviously. But still enough of a feature to get your cinematic fantasy going.

If you know some bits about me, you know that both escorting and art, music and creating it, to be specific, are big in my life. Touch is an essential part of both. With intention, with precision, with emotion. My body is heavily involved in both. There is more to this connection! I try to put my finger on it, in a metaphorical sense. The link between sexuality and creativity never ceases to amaze me and it sparked a deeper research. It is evidence-based, that there is a neuroscientific link between the two.

Reader! If you and I go on a intimate rendez-vous and, you know, our meeting is ideally ignited with a classic glass of something luscious — please note that I am quite a sucker for our charming get-to-know-you-talk… And most of all for listening to you with undivided attention. If in moments of silence (hello, erotic tension), you catch me casually tapping my fingers on something, anything — sure you’ll wonder: What goes on in my head — playing some tunes or playing on / with parts of your body?

Because sometimes… no, often actually, body just knows better. Fingers know better. We’ll explore later. Let’s extend the research? Between the sheets, I mean.

With love, Elise

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Nice to have you here! This is gonna be my first blog post here. I am excited about using this one as a space where I can ponder on intriguing topics, be bold, share impressions and leave some thoughts — the more unhinged, the better, I guess. Not sure, if I’ll get naked here, but my thoughts will. A thing you’ll find out about me: I suck at sugarcoating things and… I am a sucker for unleashing heartfelt words that have been lingering on the tongue for a good while. Which means things will get weird at some point. Or someone’s feathers may be ruffled. But for sure: I will inform, I may even educate, on the world of an escort and all that surrounds it. Who could do it better than someone speaking from first-hand experience, huh?

Now, for a quick Intro about me: I am an International Travel Companion and Independent Escort in Hamburg Germany. I am not only based and available in the Venice of the North, though. I travel frequently — beyond Germany, beyond Europe — and I am generally available for discreet escort dates worldwide upon request.

As an artist with a focus on human experiences this is a dream come true. Well, for me, that sure is. With my artistic approach I view escorting as ever-changing, evolving immersive art. When I’m not in bed with — you — I’m usually involved in an artistic project of mine. As a pianist and producer, a bedroom producer, actually…Ha-ha. Obviously, beds are a major place I operate from — or in. Nothing excites me more.

See you in my next post, reader…

— Elise